I just read this super sad post about this girl who’s asexual and married and everyone is basically telling her that she doesn’t deserve her husband/she’s just a prude/she should just do it anyway.
So I want to tell you all right now that if people tell you this, or if they tell you you’ll never have a relationship, it is BULLSHIT.
My husband is asexual and I’m not. He’s sex repulsed, we don’t have sex, we never have.
And it doesn’t matter to me. You know what does? He does. His mental health and wellbeing matter to me. Because he is my best friend and he’s one of the smartest, kindest, funniest people I’ve ever met. And he’s had people tel him that he’s broken and it makes me SO ANGRY because they are WRONG.
Being different doesnt mean you’re broken.
If you don’t like sex/don’t want it/etc. Do not let anyone tell you that you’re inferior because you’re not.
Do not let anyone convice you that you’ll never have a relationship because they’re wrong(if you want one).
You are not broken, and it will be okay.
This made me feel really good. Remember this, for all my ace spectrum friends out there
I hope you don’t mind me reblogging your tags but these are my feelings EXACTLY
I’m always a little nervous that I’m not “good enough” for a “real relationship” because sex isn’t on the table. So yeah, these stories are reassuring
The amount of pressure from society to have sex is incredible. We’re told it’s linked to relationship health and if you’re not willing to do every damn thing you’re labeled a prude. It’s incredibly disheartening, especially considering how one’s libido can change over the years even if you’re not ace. Nice to see a supportive piece from a partner.
Just to be clear, Hillary Clinton could straight up die and relay her orders to the oval office every morning via a fuckin ouija board and she’d STILL be a better president than Trump
James Tiberius “sunk all his points into improvised weaponry and bluff” Kirk, space bard.
Commander “charisma is a dump stat” Spock, space wizard
Lieutenant “wait, can we use supplemental materials for this?” Sulu, space duelist
Lieutenant Nyota“lockpick and detect trap are literally always useful skills guys come on” Uhura, space theif
Lieutenant Commander Montgomery “definitely going to blow the party up with that flask of Greek fire” Scott, space alchemist.
Ensign Pavel “Does not know how to tank” Chekov, Barbarian
And finally, to round out the party, Leonard “I can’t believe not a single one of you motherfuckers took a single rank in healing, I should pick rogue just to spite you,” McCoy, space cleric.
I was thinking of AUs for CP and I can’t stop laughing at the “first things you say to each other are tattooed on their body” soulmates au. Jack would have “Hey y’all” or something else super southern on him. (When he was born, Bad Bod was like “It’s English…I think.”) And Bitty! He’d have something like “Stay focused, Bittle.” OR GOD FORBID “Bittle, eat more protein.” Like can u imagine growing up with that on your body. “Your soulmate sounds like a real charmer Eric.” I’m actually crying, imagining this.
But what if the first thing Jack says is something in French under his breath and its like “holy shit he’s gorgeous” or if you want something more funny “Fuck me in the ass” because just imagine that written in French on bitty
Now all I can picture is Bitty poor mama looking up what her little boy’s soulmate says to him and looking absolutely scandalized.
“Dicky honey did you ever look up what your French soul mate mark meant ?”
“No mamma I want them to tell me when I meet them , I bet it’s romantic since it is French”
“Bless your heart Dicky”
Bob and Alicia pick Jack up at the airport at the begining of Christmas break. Jack had told them that’d he met his soul mate and they couldn’t wait to hear all about it
“So Jack was she a southern bell”
Jack looks down at the words scrawled across his arm “you have no idea”
Jack has known that Bittle was his soul mate ever since he met him on that first day of pre-season.
Bittle on the other hand has denied himself the fantasy of his soul mate being Jack. “Remember he is straight” He mutters to himself. Jack has always talked about his cousin Andre and how he had just broken up with his boyfriend. “It’s probably Andre I’ll meet him at some party after Jack wins the cup and we’ll fall in love”
One afternoon on a particularly hot day Bittle decides to go for a run and invites Jack to go with him. Since its so hot he’s decided to wear his new tank top.
He walks down stairs and Jack notices black lettering peeking out from under Bitty’s shirt. “Is that your mark Bittle?” He questions. Jack has never gotten a good look at it since its considered rude to read others and Bittle never sits still long enough in the locker room anyways.
“Oh this yeah, Oh! Jack do you think you would be able to translate it for me?” Bitty asks him. He removes his shirt and Jack reads the text. fourre moi dans le cul. Jack blushes remembering that first day. “It…it uh…it says your gorgeous” He stammers out..
“Thanks Jack now come on lets go” Bittle responds cheerfully.
“Bits come on” Lardo shouts as she barges into Bitty’s room. “Wait, what the fuck” She eyes Bitty’s Mark on his back.
“What?!” He turns around worried; eyes wide.
She starts laughing. “Why does it say fourre moi ans le cul on your back?”
“Its my mark” he explains. “Jack says it means “your gorgeous””
“I get that its your mark” She starts “ But thats not what it means. Bits it means fuck me in the ass”
Bitty’s jaw drops in horror and doesn’t realize he’s moving till he’s in Jack’s room and Jack looks a little more than frightened. “Jack Laurent Zimmermann, what the fuck is wrong with you, why did you tell me the french on my back meant “your gorgeous” when you know darn well what it means” He demands
Jack Sighs and kicks off his shoe and shows Bittle his sole marked distinctly with the words Hey Y’all
this one kid’s test answers are so funny xD you won’t BELIEVE how clever they are
Oh
Oh my god
either this is a fake or they pushed the teacher to be so done they are thinking of quitting…. because honestly it could be either… please don’t do this to teachers, they work hard and get paid very little. they don’t need to deal with this kind of thing.
yeah. yeah its the second one youre correct
In all fairness these are dick questions. The first one holy shit. I can think of a million answers, some of which very scientific, and they would be all right.
All the teacher has done has boiled the test down to what chapter they did which takes no skill. Ask this question on a final test at the end of the answer and I’d hope kids would put BS questions. There’s no context.
yeah its hard to believe that this is a real test . but it is 100 hundred percent real. Theres no making this stuff up … It’s real folks
These aren’t dick questions. Look a the top, it says unit 3.7 test. The test isn’t even over and entire chapter it’s over a section of a chapter, so maybe like 3, 4pages max. Maybe if the kid read those 4 pages he would know exactly what context to pull from. Yeah you could answer number one with several answers but only one answer is from unit 3.7. So piss off and a hand for the teacher.
yeah everyone you just gotta look at the top. you are all clearly not paying enough attention to this extremely real test. unlike this guy right here. hes paying attention. he knows how much very real teens disrespect also very much real teachers. sickening
Her relationship with Deadpool, I guess it’s kind of like brother and sister. They pick at each other a lot but they’re not, like, enemies. There’s love there. – Brianna Hildebrand
